by Lynn Paolillo
ne of the most common comments I hear as a professional cat groomer is, “But I thought cats groomed themselves.” Usually this comes from the owner of a cat sitting on my grooming table suffering from mats, dandruff, hairballs, overgrown nails or a crusty rear end.
The funny thing is, they’re not entirely wrong—cats do groom themselves. In fact, they spend a significant portion of their day licking and maintaining their coats. The problem is that self-grooming isn’t always enough.
After nearly two decades of grooming cats, I’ve noticed that grooming needs tend to follow predictable patterns throughout a cat’s life. The issues I see in a six-month-old kitten are very different from what I see in a 10-year-old cat, and those are very different from the challenges facing a 17-year-old super senior.
Understanding those changes can help us become better groomers, allow us to make better recommendations to clients and, most importantly, help cats stay comfortable throughout their lives.
The conversation is almost always the same: “My cat never needed grooming before,” “He never had mats until recently” or “She’s always taken care of herself.” And they’re usually right. For years, many of these cats did perfectly fine on their own. Then something changed…
Maybe arthritis made it difficult to reach their back end, maybe they lost flexibility, maybe kidney disease affected coat quality, or maybe they simply didn’t have the energy to keep up with the amount of grooming their coat required.
Whatever the cause, the result is often the same: a cat that successfully maintained itself for over a decade suddenly begins falling behind. This is why I often tell clients that grooming is a little like retirement planning—the best time to prepare is long before you need it.
By the time a super-senior cat develops severe matting, painful hairballs or ingrown nails, our options become more limited. Their skin is thinner, their tolerance for handling may be lower, and many have underlying health conditions that make grooming more physically demanding. The very thing they need can also become stressful.
This is where prevention becomes invaluable. A cat that has been introduced to bathing, drying, handling, nail trims and professional grooming throughout life often tolerates those services far better when they truly need them later.
For many cats, this happens somewhere between seven and 12 years of age. The changes can be gradual enough that owners don’t immediately connect them to aging. But as groomers, we see the pattern all the time.
The reality is that many senior cats benefit tremendously from routine maintenance. Regular nail trims help prevent painful overgrowth, bathing removes excess oils and dead coat that may be contributing to hairballs and skin issues, and sanitary trims become increasingly important when mobility starts to decline.
This is often when I encourage owners to stop thinking of grooming as a luxury service and start viewing it as part of their cat’s healthcare routine. And not because every senior cat needs a lion cut, but because every senior cat deserves to be comfortable.
In fact, the adult years are often when we identify what a cat’s long-term grooming needs are going to be:
- Will they be prone to matting?
- Will they struggle with shedding and hairballs?
- Do they have a dense undercoat that benefits from routine deshedding?
- Do they tolerate handling, bathing and drying?
These are the years when patterns emerge.
One thing I’ve learned is that coat length isn’t always the best predictor of grooming needs. Coat texture and density often matter much more. Some longhaired cats have silky coats that rarely mat. Others have soft, cottony coats that seem determined to tangle if you look at them wrong.
The same is true for shedding. Some cats seem to produce enough hair every spring to build a second cat. Others shed very little despite having thick coats. Helping owners understand their individual cat’s coat type is often more valuable than giving generic grooming advice.
Owners are often confused because they weren’t having problems before. The kitten looked beautiful, the coat felt soft and brushing seemed easy. Then suddenly the cat starts developing clumps under the front legs, tangles on the belly and knots around the rear end.
This stage is particularly common in breeds such as Persians, Ragdolls, Siberians and many domestic longhairs. What makes it challenging is that owners often assume they’re doing something wrong. In reality, the coat itself is changing.
As groomers, this is a wonderful opportunity for education. Teaching proper combing techniques, discussing realistic maintenance expectations and introducing professional grooming early can prevent a lot of future headaches. Because once a juvenile cat becomes heavily matted, their first grooming experience is often a shave-down. And that isn’t how I prefer to introduce cats to grooming.
One of my favorite things about grooming kittens is that there is very little pressure. We’re not trying to solve a major coat issue—we’re building future skills. Every positive grooming experience becomes an investment that pays dividends later.
Too often, owners wait until there is a problem before introducing grooming. Unfortunately, that means the cat’s first experience may involve mat removal, extensive brushing, shaving or other procedures that are uncomfortable by necessity.
The best grooming appointment is rarely the dramatic shave-down that transforms a severely matted cat. Those certainly make for impressive before-and-after photos, but the real success stories are often much quieter. They’re the cats who come in regularly enough that they never develop painful mats, the seniors whose nails never become ingrown or the longhaired cats whose owners never have to make that panicked phone call because their cat suddenly turned into a pelted mess.
As groomers, we have the opportunity to help clients think beyond today’s appointment and focus on the years ahead. Whether we’re working with a tiny kitten, a difficult adolescent or a beloved senior, every positive grooming experience is an investment in that cat’s future comfort. And in my experience, those investments tend to pay off when they matter most.


